I work with high-achieving women over 40 who are successful at everything except feeling like it's enough.

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I guide them to know, love, and trust themselvesĀ deeply through joy, play, and a whole lot of laughing.

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When women come into my world, they stop waiting for permission to enjoy their own life.

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They just start.

Every Friday, you'll get a little ā¤ļøā€šŸ”„Soulfire in your inbox so you can feel like yourself again.
Wild Sparks ✨ Reckless Joy ✨ Real life Shenanigans 

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laughter 🤣 a smile šŸ˜‰ or something that makes you go hmm 🧐

Hi, I'm Carla.

I work with women who are successful at everything except feeling like it's enough.

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Women who have built good lives, checked the boxes, carried the responsibilities, and done all the things they were supposed to do—yet still find themselves wondering why they don't feel more fulfilled, more free, or more alive.
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I'm a former nurse & firefighter,Ā who somehow became aĀ storyteller, author, edutainer and messy perfectionist.
More importantly than any of that, I'm a woman who knows what it feels like to live a life that looks extraordinary... and still feel the quiet ache that something is missing.
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Burnout.
Sleepless nights.
Hyper-independence.
The constant striving, proving, and pushing through.
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Showing up for everyone else while losing sight of your own dreams and desires.
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Like many of the women I work with, I spent years doing what was expected of me and wondering why I still felt restless.
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The answer wasn't more achievement. It was remembering who I was beneath all the roles, responsibilities, and expectations.

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Now I create experiences, conversations, and communities for women who are ready to laugh more, trust themselves deeply, and create lives they love to wake up to.

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āš”ļøRead my storyĀ  āž

"Working with Carla has completely changed my life...

She creates a safe place, and the street cred she brings to the table is why she's so incredible!Ā Carla has taught me the tools to change myself, and for that I am forever grateful"

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ShantelĀ 

"Thank you again for the amazing experience!

Your ability to make the people around you realize their strength and power, while enriching us with your humor, is truly amazing! Thank you for reminding me what's important"Ā 

Stephanie

Choose Your Adventure...Ā Ā 

Ready to take the next step? Start where you are, and grow into who you are becoming.

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✨ The Relaxed Evolution 

Your foundational experienceĀ of curriculum & community to reach new levels of self-leadership, ease, flow, & soul satisfaction

ā£ļøĀ  The step-by-step methodology to (finally) resolveĀ & dissolveĀ theĀ restless angst ambitious, high performing women.
ā£ļø High impact Community where you are supported, elevated & celebrated through deep and meaningful connections.Ā Ā 
ā£ļøĀ Adventure & Play: Reconnect with joy through FUNterventions designed to light you up.

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Explore The Relaxed EvolutionĀ āž

✨ The Relaxed Leader Roundtable 

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A sacred space for successful visionary women ready to elevate every aspect of their lives.

Ā Through energy mastery, identity evolution, and next-level leadership strategies, you’ll unlock the success, freedom, and fulfillment you’ve been craving.

šŸ”¹ What You’ll Experience:

šŸ“ Identity Level Transformation: Release unseen limits and embody your most powerful self.

šŸ“Energy Optimization & Nervous System Mastery: The secret to sustainable success.

šŸ“Mastering the Art of Receiving: Expand into wealth, support, and ease—without guilt.

šŸ“Exclusive community & High-Level Mentorship: Be surrounded by powerful women who truly get it.

Walk away with unshakable self-trust, an optimized energy system, and a redefined approach to success that feels effortless, expansive, and deeply fulfilling.

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Core Values of the Revolution

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šŸ’„ Radical Rest & Energy Mastery – Leadership is unsustainable without energy. We prioritize nervous system regulation, deep replenishment, and vitality (because burnout isn’t a badge of honor).

šŸ’„ Powerful Identity Shifts – Success isn’t just about strategy; it’s about who you BECOME. We break free from limiting beliefs and expand into our highest leadership potential.

šŸ’„ Freedom Through Alignment – No more forcing, pushing, or grinding. We lead with clarity and ease by aligning with our deepest truth.

šŸ’„ Mastering the Art of Receiving – As strong, capable women, we’ve mastered giving. Now, we learn to receive—support, wealth, joy, and ease (without feeling like we have to "earn" it).

šŸ’„ Elevated Leadership, Elevated Life – We don’t just lead businesses and teams—we lead OURSELVES into a life of fulfillment and impact.

šŸ’„ Community & Connection Over Competition – The revolution thrives on deep, meaningful relationships with women who truly get you.

šŸ’„ Play & Celebration as Non-Negotiables – High performance doesn’t mean high stress. Joy, laughter, and FUN fuel sustainable success (because let’s be real, what’s the point if it’s not fun?).